Lovers of Self?
By Shaun LePage • Aug 24th, 2007 • Category: Culture, Pastor's Blog, WorshipFrom Keep Your Head - Pastor LePage’s blog
Numerous websites offer “Tips for How to Love Yourself”. A google search for “love yourself” produces more than a million hits. One site—written by a psychotherapist—gives such an extensive list of ways to “boost your self-love” that if you followed all the directions, you would be constantly talking to yourself. Writing yourself notes. Indulging your every whim and desire.
Another site includes a quote from Iyanla Vanzant: “I am the one I have been looking for,” she said. One lady suggests putting this on your bathroom mirror so you can say it to yourself every day: “I look in the mirror and what do I see? a beautiful lady staring back at me. Oh wow! I thought, who could that be? (then smile and say), oh! It’s only me.” She also includes this warning: “Don’t become too narcissistic or people will shun you.” One has to wonder: how narcissistic is “too narcissistic”?
So, what do you think? Is all this good and healthy? Are we supposed to “love ourselves”?
Shaun LePage is the pastor of CBC.
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